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keys to Victory

Anger = Murder


Pastor John Fichtner

Listening Test - UD


Pastor John Fichtner

  1. Leadership
  2. Five overview principles of leadership:
  1. Honesty – speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15)
  2. Listening test – how good of a listener are you?  Have you ever measured people listening skills?  
    1. Aggressive, proactive listening can cut 75% of conflict out of any conversation
  3. Options and preferences – the more you care about someone, the harder you work to find multiple, quality options. (Genesis 13)
  4. Spiritual covering/other counsel – when do I ask for help?
  5. Time test – authority comes through serving
  6. Proverbs 18:13
  7. Philippians 2:20, 21
  8. Proverb 16:24
  9. Proverb 18:2 

Dealing with Anger


Pastor John Fichtner

Circuit Breakers for Anger pt.1 - UD


Pastor John Fichtner

Marriage in Depth part 5: Circuit Breakers for Anger pt. 1 by john Fichtner


  1. Scripture references: Romans 12:18, Hebrews 12:14, Amos 3:3, Matthew 18: 18-20, Colossians 3:13, Genesis 13, Genesis 12, Acts 7, Genesis 21

  2. You don’t have a right to anger; Anger is always unrighteous.

  3. If you can do marriage you can be successful in every area of your life.

  4. This sermon will be a mini series on how to get rid of anger.

  5. All of these sermons apply to every person not just married people.

  6. These are about life and the Lord’s practical applications in our lives.

  7. I can give anyone that will be humble and work hard for a year a fantastic marriage!

  8. Being students of the Word we will quit reacting to life and start living by the Word of God.

  9. Read at least 1 chapter of the New Testament everyday for the rest of your life.

  10. Extended family strife is common. It is God’s intended passionate purpose to separate all extended families.

  11. No one can stop it but you can fight it and make it worse than God ever intended.

  12. When the children are grown God begins to have individual destiny over each new nuclear family.

  13. There are two Godly biblical goals for resolving most tension situations and you can choose either goal and please Jesus: (1) Peace & (2) agreement.

  14. Peace is separately intentionally for purpose and motive of love.

  15. Marriage is always agreement. It is the only human relationship where God’s goal is always to come closer.

  16. Agreement is

  17. You ought to memorize Matthew 18:18-20

  18. When people assume that we have to fix everything, have to stay close, have to understand each other, that we have to like each other what happens is we tend to try to hard and we get angry because everyone else is not trying as hard as we are.

  19. When God wants to separate people He just uncovers some of each of your flaws.

  20. When God says that the season for that relationship is over, I will separate you.

  21. No one has any ounce of freedom to give one word of input into anybody’s life.

  22. There are two reasons why we have amazing unity in Liberty church: (1) All the pastors walk in a constant, humble, prayerful unity, (2) When people join liberty, I ask that if they have a problem to email me.

  23. You trust no man completely and any man that you trust, you trust because he repents easily, he knows what his flesh patterns are and who he is in Christ. That’s the reason that you begin to build trust.

  24. When you wont obey God to separate, your destiny stops!

  25. God is your source!

Circuit Breakers for Anger pt.2 - UD


Pastor John Fichtner

Circuit Breakers for Anger pt.3 - UD


Pastor John Fichtner